Hate Affairs

Some women hate men and some men hate women. They find pleasure in hurt, deceiving and manipulating other people. They lie easily and well.

The need to dominate. They choose people who are vulnerable, gullible or innocent. They promise everything and deliver pain, disappointment and humiliation refreshed with new promises and apologies.

The affairee is usually smooth in approach, which can range from playing a flamboyantly successful person to a pathetic victim who would get better "if only someone understood."

They start by pumping up their affairee, then they gradually disappoint, frustrate, subjugate and manipulate their partner. They take money, time, energy and self-esteem from their lover. The derive a sense of safety through domination and control. They do not leave their spouse.

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